Episode 31: Fifty Shades of Abuse

The first movie in the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy is about to be released which means the hype is in full swing as is criticism. Ever since the release of the books we’ve heard (and discussed) how Fifty Shades is Abuse. How Fifty Shades doesn’t represent what BDSM and D/s is all about. Let’s talk about the reality of Fifty Shades, how it does represent an abusive relationship but that this is also something that happens in D/s relationships. There are dom/mes like Christian Grey, and this sad reality can’t be ignored. Fifty Shades of Grey doesn’t represent what BDSM normally entails, but it does depict a real perversion of a D/s relationship. (more…)

Episode 25: Food in the Dungeon

I hope the audio is up to snuff in this episode. My throat was a bit rough and on top of that my recording came out really quiet. I tried to boost the audio so hopefully this didn’t boost any artifacts in the audio I missed. This episode is about food. Why I love gifts of food, how I like to involve food in sessions, and some philosophical musings on food based humiliation in things like puppy play.

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Intro music is Ghost 17 off the album Ghosts I-IV by Nine Inch Nails

Episode 22: Financial Domination Part 2

In today’s episode I delve into my personal philosophy of Financial Domination. In my opinion the reason so many dom/mes fail at financial domination is they don’t know why they are doing it and aren’t honest with their intentions. I normally don’t like discussing too many secrets, but in the end, I don’t think this is much of a secret nor do I think this is a  universal philosophy. Perhaps it will let those on both sides of the coin understand why they are into it a bit more and maybe grasp their own philosophy of financial domination. Anything is better than reading more about pay pigs, piggies, human ATMs, wallet rape, etc.

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Opening music is Ghosts 19 by Nine Inch Nails off the album Ghosts I-IV

 

Episode 21: Latex Part 2: Bondage and Encasement

After another hiatus I am back to talk more about latex! This time I go into some depth about latex bondage and encasement. Why is it so intense to cover someone completely in rubber? What properties does latex have that add to this? Why do I enjoy dominating subs this way? What’s a latex bondage ball like? Listen and find out! (more…)

Episode 20: Miss Rubber World 2013

I wanted to pot this over a week ago but I haven’t been able to track down any new photos! Oh well. Here’s my trip report from the NY Rubber Ball and Miss Rubber World 2013. I was the first runner up and there’s lots of tales of music mishaps, diner dates and rubber rubber rubber! This isn’t an exhaustive review of the event as I saw little of this year’s New York Rubber Ball (except for backstage!) but you’ll hear everything that happened to me over the weekend.

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In the second photo I’m with Angel (who was the 2nd Runner Up) and her sidekick (I am bad with names…)

Theme music: “Ghosts 19″ by Nine Inch Nails off the album Ghosts I-IV

Episode 19: “I Can Relocate”

Every dom/me hears the phrase “I can relocate” from a would be slave. Whether they are a professional, lifestyle or somewhere in between, everyone gets this. Why do these three words mean the submissive is completely delusional? What do I think when I hear it? This episode covers the underlying reasons why so many submissives on Collarme, Fetlife and elsewhere are so quick to tell you they will uproot just to serve.

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Episode 18: Roleplay Part 1

Roleplay is a really difficult topic to discuss and even introduce. There’s so many facets to it, I’ve tried and failed once in the past to record an acceptable introduction to roleplay. There’s also so many ways to roleplay and get in character that it is easy to come off as saying my way is the right way. It’s not, it is just the way I find roleplay sessions to work the best for me. So if you are interested in roleplay, how I roleplay and some of the stranger roleplays I have done lately, listen up! (Well, if you are interested in fetish roleplay. This will not help you play Final Fantasy or Dungeons and Dragons.)

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Opening music is Ghosts 19 by Nine Inch Nails off the album Ghosts I-IV.

Episode 17: Latex Part 1

I can’t believe it took this long, here’s Episode 17: Latex Part 1. Finally I introduce my favorite material. Why I love wearing it, why some people won’t bother, all of the pros and cons, the sex appeal and the not so sexy side of latex, I try to cover it in here. If you want to know how it feels to wear latex and why people bother spending so much to look a certain way, there are some answers in this episode. I should also include a correction: In the episode I basically say that few people are specifically a vinyl fetishist. That’s really not true. Compared to leather and latex there are fewer fetishists specifically into vinyl, but they definitely exist.

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Opening music is Ghosts 19 by Nine Inch Nails off the album Ghosts I-IV.

Episode 16: Fetlife

Update: I want to say that in the two years since I’ve posted this I have seen noticeable improvement from Fetlife. I am not going to remove this episode but I do want to note that pretty much every criticism in this episode has been either rectified or improved drastically and that’s all you can really ask for.

 

Episode 16 of the podcast is now up and is a history of the problems with the website Fetlife. (more…)