The Dungeon Diaries » Fetlife - The Dungeon Diaries http://dungeondiaries.com A Kinky Podcast About the Life of a Dominatrix Mon, 16 Mar 2015 06:21:09 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 Episode 19: “I Can Relocate” http://dungeondiaries.com/episode-19-i-can-relocate/ http://dungeondiaries.com/episode-19-i-can-relocate/#comments Fri, 19 Apr 2013 02:32:44 +0000 http://dungeondiaries.com/?p=160 Continue reading → ]]> Every dom/me hears the phrase “I can relocate” from a would be slave. Whether they are a professional, lifestyle or somewhere in between, everyone gets this. Why do these three words mean the submissive is completely delusional? What do I think when I hear it? This episode covers the underlying reasons why so many submissives on Collarme, Fetlife and elsewhere are so quick to tell you they will uproot just to serve.

So if you are a submissive and would like to not sound like a pathetic loser when you contact someone, or if you’d just like to hear some musings on one of the lamer cliches in D/s communication, listen in!

http://www.dungeondiaries.com/Episode19.mp3

Opening music: Ghosts 19 by Nine Inch Nails, off the album Ghosts I-IV

]]> http://dungeondiaries.com/episode-19-i-can-relocate/feed/ 0 Episode 16: Fetlife http://dungeondiaries.com/episode-16-fetlife/ http://dungeondiaries.com/episode-16-fetlife/#comments Fri, 01 Mar 2013 00:15:27 +0000 http://dungeondiaries.com/?p=140 Continue reading → ]]> Update: I want to say that in the two years since I’ve posted this I have seen noticeable improvement from Fetlife. I am not going to remove this episode but I do want to note that pretty much every criticism in this episode has been either rectified or improved drastically and that’s all you can really ask for.

 

Episode 16 of the podcast is now up and is a history of the problems with the website Fetlife. I will not claim this is an exhaustive analysis of Fetlife’s issues. There are more. In recent days the Fetlife’s founder has made some idiotic decisions that have highlighted five years of bad decisions, bullying and hypocrisy on the part of Fetlife and its management. This episode deals with Fetlife’s failures to live up to its Terms of Use, its internet bullying in the form of aggressive, improper DMCA notices, its failures to protect members from being outed and put in danger, and its failures to live up to its agreements with credit card processors. On top of this, we can add bullying a 9 year old boy to the mix. For more information on recent events, visit Fetlife Fail.

http://www.dungeondiaries.com/Episode16.mp3

Theme music is Ghosts 19 off the album Ghosts I-IV by Nine Inch Nails.

 

 

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